Men are aroused by the breasts and buttocks of women.
Yes, there are men who prefer boys, men or animals but these are deviants.
Women are aroused by success, a resonant and melodious
voice, a playful wit or a reassuring smile. Oh, there are many exceptions but
only because women are silly creatures.
Our sexuality is diverse. It is often perverse. It is the
thing that makes anything and everything interesting.
Many women fantasize about being raped or murdered…
though they would rather not be raped or murdered. The thrill of the fantasy
is that it would be a terrible reality. The severity is exciting and the grim
intimacy sexually interesting.
Many men fantasize about women being bound and gagged.
Even those who do not are aroused by the idea. I find it sexy, as a fantasy. My
compassion would not abide another person’s plight.
Our sexual fantasies do not always agree with our real preferences. They may be so
outlandish as to be entirely impossible. They may not even involve our direct
participation, even as a daydream.
I was sexually aroused by a fiction in a comic book: An
armed man clad in full armor and anonymous behind a mask is standing guard. He
is unaware of the monstrous pair of hands reaching for him… until they grab him
by his helm and a shoulder and snap
his masked face past the shoulder.
The killer and victim alike were male. The hero was the
monster and the hapless baddie a human being. Though armed, armored and vigilant
the victim proved helpless: He was smaller, weaker and easily caught unawares.
The kill was unceremonious yet dramatic. The victim was left sprawled at his
post to be found dead by his fellows.
I am a compassionate and heterosexual man who favors
humans above all other creatures… yet I enjoyed every connotation of the
provided fantasy.
Behavior is reality. Daydreaming is fantasy. Behave
responsibly. Fantasize whimsically. Your humanity is worth the bother.
The most common tend to be the most natural. The male and female dynamic--whether blatantly sexual or not--is timeless and must ultimately be respected at #1! The other ones are cool too, but they deviate from the norm.
ReplyDeleteExactly! There are priorities, not a fairness. Some things are indeed better than others. Likewise, some people are indeed better than others. Merit is always PROVEN. A lesser thing is greater when it compliments a greater. The reverse is merely the lessening of greatness.
DeleteVery interesting, I find much inspiration and energy from fantasizing. In my fantasies I would be as a barbarian with many beautiful women sprawled at my feet tired from the daily "activities". In reality I am loyal to my wife and would never stray, that same energy that I fantasize about is used to fuel my passions and gives me the drive to do more.
ReplyDeleteRather than squander that energy breaking a woman's heart, you sublimate it into manifestations of everlasting beauty. You were wise to reject the empty promises of this world of cyclic futility.
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