Human sexuality is men breeding with women. It is also men with men or men with children or women with women or women with children or men or women with animals or corpses. It is masturbation. It is consensual… or rape. Underwear or shoes or dolls or anything else may be the object of interest. The pleasure may be from pain, yours or someone else’s. Words that are spoken or written that are eloquent or vulgar may arouse. Singing and dancing are traditionally sexy, in every culture.
Nudity or clothes are alluring. The clothes may be sexy whether tight or skimpy or a uniform or a costume or whatever else you fancy.
Human sexuality is evil more often than not. It is not the particulars that are wicked, but rather the indifference of the interested. People exploit and even destroy others for instant gratification. They harm themselves for a cheap thrill.
Human sexuality is good when the love of a married couple. It is good when sublimated into artistic endeavors and is appreciated. It is good as a motivation for hygiene and fitness.
The spiritual aspects of sexuality precede its physical manifestations. It is intercourse in both respects. The masculine and feminine are materialized as male and female. Homosexuality does not alter this innate dynamic in the slightest, but rather fails to bring it to fruition.
Sexuality and violence are indeed intrinsically linked. They are passionate intercourse whether they produce life or destroy it. It is masculine to kill and feminine to die, and this is why men are sent to their deaths while women are kept out of the danger.
What distinguishes the wholesome from the perverse? Both
sexuality and violence can be either.
It is restraint as a selfless act of loving patience that tempers sexuality or
violence, purifying them when they are ultimately enacted.